Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

The people of the world, or at least the people in my small realm of the world, lack empathy.

We are quick to judge. Quick to declare guilt. And, very quick to blame.

Unfortunately, very few of us place ourselves in other’s shoes.

It’s understandable though. Current culture dictates quick responses. Everyone has to have an immediate reaction and then tell everyone through social media.

I’m not saying I am above social media. I use it just as much as everyone else, I’m sure. However, I do not feel it is necessary to post my life story and reactions to everything.

In reality, it takes time to process why someone would do something.

In fact, sometimes it is downright painful to imagine why someone does something.

Perhaps, a child seeking attention in school because he has no human interaction at home.

An adult looking to vent because he or she honestly has no idea how to handle a situation.

Someone “bragging” about something that happened simply because they want to have confirmation that they did the right thing.

Looking at situations from someone else’s point of view is NOT easy. But, my gosh, it is so dearly needed. Adults need it and adults need to teach it to their children.

Because, we are living in a culture of “bullies,” “blame,” “everyone gets a trophy,” causing us to forget one of the greatest philosophies in American culture – “pick yourself up by your bootstraps and get it done.”

Everyone is going to have a bad day. We all have days that we don’t want to finish the job or even go into their job. And, we are definitely going to have days where we do not understand why Johnnie Joe and Susie Q are acting the way they are, but “do your job” and let them learn from your example.

Because, why is that important? There will be a day where you’re struggling just like they are. I know I certainly don’t want people to turn their backs on me when I’m having a bad day.

I challenge everyone and myself – teach your children empathy. Be an example of empathy for others around you.

It is everyone’s job to do his or her job. Spend less time worrying if someone else is doing theirs and do yours.

Imagine a world where we were slower to blame, slower to criticize, and much more understanding of the conditions in other’s lives.

That sounds like a world I’d like to live in. Empathy is difficult yet powerful. Let’s all try to do better exhibiting and teaching this important trait.